I myself didn’t put much thought into what is normal or “vanilla” until a couple of years ago. From where I’m standing (or sitting in my chair, on the internet), everyone seems kinkier than ever-and if everyone is kinky, does that mean everyone is actually just vanilla?
There’s a Wiki solely for the sexualization of feet. In the past couple years, “daddy” has morphed from a term reserved for dominant/sub relationships to an internet meme. With the term “BDSM” prompting almost 400 million Google results and TV shows like Broad City wrapping plotlines around pegging, the lines of what’s “normal” or not in bed feel, to me, more blurred now than ever. Monteiro and her partners are far from alone.